"Over-thinking ruins things. It ruins the situation, twists things around, causes you to worry needlessly - and makes everything much worse than it needs to be."
You can never fully love anyone, and no one can fully love you until you love yourself. Then can you be comfortable enough to let someone else in. Open your heart to you, let yourself in and see how beautiful you are on the inside. Once you find the desire to be yourself, someone will desire to be with you.